Notes

Chapter 1

1. “Free Jinger History,” Free Jinger, accessed August 25, 2022, https://www.freejinger.org/help/free-jinger-history/.

2. Joshua Bote, “He wrote the christian case against dating. Now he’s splitting from his wife and faith,” USA Today, July 29, 2019, https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2019/07/29/joshua-harris-i-kissed-dating-goodbye-i-am-not-christian/1857934001.

3. Carly Mayberry, “Josh Harris Launches Course on Deconstructing Faith, but Some Theologians Question His Motives,” Newsweek, August 13, 2021, https://www.newsweek.com/josh-harris-launches-course-deconstructing-faith-some-theologians-question-his-motives-1619263.

Chapter 2

1. John MacArthur, “The Conscience, Revisited,” Grace to You, accessed August 24, 2022, https://www.gty.org/library/articles/A273/the-conscience-revisited; emphasis in original.

2. “Bill Gothard,” Institute in Basic Life Principles, accessed August 24, 2022, https://iblp.org/about-iblp/iblp-history/bill-gothard.

3. “IBLP History,” Institute in Basic Life Principles, accessed August 24, 2022, https://iblp.org/about-iblp/iblp-history.

4. “The GOTHARD Files: The Early Years, 1965–79,” Recovering Grace, February 11, 2014, https://www.recoveringgrace.org/2014/02/the-gothard-files-the-early-years-1965-79/.

5. Bill Gothard, “How to Trace Problems to Root Causes” (Basic Seminar Session 01, Institute in Basic Life Principles), MP4, 33:57, https://basicseminar.com/session/basic-seminar-session-01-how-to-trace-problems-to-root-causes/.

6. Gothard, 1:22.

7. Embassy University, Four Secrets That Guarantee Success in Your Life! . . . And Your World!, BillGothard.com, https://billgothard.com/resources/28-four-secrets-that-will-transform-your-life-and-your-world/.

Chapter 3

1. Bill Gothard, Questions and Answers on Infertility and Birth Control, Basic Care Booklet 19 (Medical Training Institute of America), 41–42.

2. Gothard, 42–43.

3. Jim Sammons, “Session 20: Prepare Now for a Lasting Heritage” (Financial Freedom Seminar, Embassy Media), MP4, 44:32, https://embassymedia.com/media/session-20-prepare-now-lasting-heritage.

4. Sammons, 45:39.

5. John Piper, “Is It Wrong to Use Birth Control?” Desiring God, March 5, 2008, https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/is-it-wrong-to-use-birth-control.

6. Matt Perman, “Does the Bible Permit Birth Control?” Desiring God, January 23, 2006, https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/does-the-bible-permit-birth-control.

7. Eric Roth, Forrest Gump, screenplay (1992), based on a novel by Winston Groom, http://www.dailyscript.com/scripts/forrest_gump.html.

8. “What Are the Seven Basic Life Principles?” Institute in Basic Life Principles, accessed August 24, 2022, https://www.iblp.org/questions/what-are-seven-basic-life-principles.

9. “What Are the Seven Basic Life Principles?”

10. Bill Gothard, Seminar Workbook, Session 1 (1996; repr., Hinsdale, IL: Institute in Basic Life Principles, 2006), 6, https://embassymedia.com/media/session-01-how-trace-problems-root-causes.

11. Gothard, 6.

12. Gothard, 6.

13. Gothard, 6.

14. Bill Gothard, Seminar Workbook, Session 14 (1996; repr., Oak Brook, IL: Institute in Basic Life Principles, 2006), 64, https://embassymedia.com/media/session-14-how-experience-gods-guarantee-success.

15. Gothard, “How to Trace Problems to Root Causes” (Basic Seminar Session 01), 53:36.

16. Bill Gothard, “Seven Universal Principles Taught in the Basic Seminar,” BillGothard.com, accessed August 24, 2022, https://billgothard.com/teachings/.

17. “How ‘Counseling Sexual Abuse’ Blames and Shames Survivors,” Recovering Grace, April 18, 2013, https://www.recoveringgrace.org/2013/04/how-counseling-sexual-abuse-blames-and-shames-survivors/.

18. Bill Gothard, “How to Overcome Self-Rejection” (Basic Seminar Session 02, Institute in Basic Life Principles), MP4, 39:26, https://basicseminar.com/session/basic-seminar-session-02-how-to-overcome-self-rejection/.

19. Gothard, 40:07.

20. Gothard, 45:58.

21. Bill Gothard, Men’s Manual, vol. 1 (1979; repr., Hinsdale, IL: Institute in Basic Life Principles, Inc., 1993), 6.

22. John MacArthur, “Reasons to Forgive, Part 1,” Grace to You, accessed August 25, 2022, https://www.gty.org/library/sermons-library/90-393/reasons-to-forgive-part-1.

23. Gothard, Seminar Workbook, Session 1, 6.

24. Bill Gothard, “Dealing with Hurts / Keys to Forgiveness” (Basic Seminar Session 07, Institute in Basic Life Principles), MP4, 22:43, https://basicseminar.com/session/basic-seminar-session-07-dealing-with-hurts-keys-to-forgiveness/.

25. Gothard, “How to Trace Problems to Root Causes” (Basic Seminar Session 01), 18:46.

26. Austin Duncan, “The Calm Before the Storm,” Crossroads ministry sermon (Sun Valley, CA: Grace Community Church, January 20, 2019), 29:35, 31:31, 33:29, https://www.gracechurch.org/sermons/15264.

27. Bill Gothard, Research in Principles of Life: Advanced Seminar Textbook (Oak Brook, IL: Institute in Basic Youth Conflicts, 1986), 297.

28. “What Is an ‘Umbrella of Protection’?” Institute in Basic Life Principles, accessed August 25, 2022, https://iblp.org/questions/what-umbrella-protection.

Chapter 4

1. Bill Gothard, “How to Relate to Four Authorities” (Basic Seminar Session 04, Institute in Basic Life Principles), MP4, 00:38, https://basicseminar.com/session/basic-seminar-session-04-how-to-relate-to-four-authorities/.

2. Bill Gothard, Research in Principles of Life: Advanced Seminar Textbook (Oak Brook, IL: Institute in Basic Youth Conflicts, 1986), 20.

3. Gothard, 25.

4. Bill Gothard, “Abnormal Social Development” (Basic Seminar Session 03, Institute in Basic Life Principles), MP4, 23:17, https://basicseminar.com/session/basic-seminar-session-03-abnormal-social-development/.

5. Peter Hastie, “The Fear of God: Talking with Jerry Bridges,” Briefing, September 1, 2002, http://thebriefing.com.au/2002/09/the-fear-of-god-talking-with-jerry-bridges.

6. Gothard, Research in Principles of Life: Advanced Seminar Textbook, 297.

7. Amy McKenna, ed., “Jim Jones,” Encyclopaedia Britannica Online, last updated May 9, 2022, https://www.britannica.com/biography/Jim-Jones.

Chapter 5

1. Jana, Jill, Jessa, and Jinger Duggar, Growing Up Duggar: It’s All About Relationships (New York: Howard Books, 2014).

2. Duggar, 185, 187.

Chapter 6

1. Bill Gothard, “How to Prepare Your Home for Successful Living” (Basic Seminar Session 12, Institute for Basic Life Principles, MP4) 1:17:38.

2. Bill Gothard, “The Development of Reprobation” (Basic Seminar Session 09, Institute in Basic Life Principles), MP4, 1:02:50, https://basicseminar.com/session/basic-seminar-session-09-the-development-of-reprobation/.

3. Bill Gothard, “How to Overcome Self-Rejection,” 46:16.

4. Gothard, 46:56.

5. Bill Gothard, Concepts for Anger Resolution, Protect 4, series 2 (Basic Care Bulletin), 129.

6. Bill Gothard, “How to Trace Problems to Root Causes,” (Basic Seminar Session 01, Institute for Basic Life Principles, MP4) 53:37.

Chapter 7

1. “What Is a ‘Rhema’?” Institute in Basic Life Principles, accessed August 27, 2022, https://iblp.org/questions/what-rhema.

2. Bill Gothard, Life Purpose: A Journal of God’s Power in Us, vol. 1 (Oak Brook, IL: Institute in Basic Life Principles, 1990), 11.

3. Bill Gothard, Basic Care Bulletin 5, Medical Training Institute of America, How to Make Wise Decisions on Adoption, 40.

Chapter 8

1. J. I. Packer, Evangelical Magazine 7 (Charleston, SC: BiblioLife, 2015), 19–20, self-quoted in Knowing God (1973; repr., Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 1993), 201.

2. Packer, Knowing God, 202.

3. The Overlooked Requirements for Riches, Honor and Life, Supplementary Alumni Book, vol. 13 (Oak Brook, IL: Institute in Basic Youth Conflicts, 1987), 13.

Chapter 9

1. Bill Gothard, Basic Seminar Session 04, How to Relate to Four Authorities, MP4, 46:54.

Chapter 10

1. Steve Perisho, “A Common Quotation from ‘Augustine’?” Georgetown University, accessed August 27, 2022, https://faculty.georgetown.edu/jod/augustine/quote.html.

2. Bill Gothard, Basic Care Bulletin 5, Medical Training Institute of America, How to Make Wise Decisions on Adoption, 28.

Chapter 11

1. Jimmy and Clara Hinton, “Episode 198: Gothard’s Girls—Charis Barker’s Experience as a Survivor,” April 28, 2022, in Speaking Out on Sex Abuse, podcast, YouTube video, 10:44, https://youtu.be/PTDIzjktZvo.

2. Bryan Smith, “The Cult Next Door,” Chicago, June 20, 2016, https://www.chicagomag.com/Chicago-Magazine/July-2016/Institute-in-Basic-Life-Principles-Hinsdale/.

3. Rachel Frost, quoted in Smith, “The Cult Next Door.”

4. Hinton, “Episode 198: Gothard’s Girls,” 9:40.

5. Sarah Pulliam Bailey, “New Charges Allege Religious Leader, Who Has Ties to the Duggars, Sexually Abused Women,” Washington Post, January 6, 2016, https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/acts-of-faith/wp/2016/01/06/new-charges-allege-religious-leader-who-has-ties-to-the-duggars-sexually-abused-women/.

6. “Statement from Recovering Grace Regarding the Lawsuit Against Bill Gothard and IBLP,” Recovering Grace, March 28, 2018, https://www.recoveringgrace.org/2018/03/statement-from-recovering-grace-regarding-the-lawsuit-against-bill-gothard-and-iblp/.

7. Board of Directors, “Statement Regarding Resignation,” Institute in Basic Life Principles, March 17, 2014, https://iblp.org/news/statement-regarding-resignation.

8. Board of Directors, “A Time of Transition,” Institute in Basic Life Principles, June 17, 2014, https://iblp.org/news/time-transition.

9. Bailey, “New Charges Allege Religious Leader.”

10. “The GOTHARD Files: The Early Years, 1965–79,” Recovering Grace, February 11, 2014, https://www.recoveringgrace.org/2014/02/the-gothard-files-the-early-years-1965-79/.

11. “The GOTHARD Files: The Scandal, 1980,” Recovering Grace, February 20, 2014, https://www.recoveringgrace.org/2014/02/the-scandal-1980/.

12. “The GOTHARD Files: The Scandal.”

13. Bailey, “New Charges Allege Religious Leader.”

14. “Statement from Recovering Grace Regarding the Lawsuit.”

15. Bill Gothard, “How False Accusations ‘Worked Together for Good,’” BillGothard.com, accessed August 27, 2022, https://billgothard.com/testimonies/.

16. Gothard, “How False Accusations.”

17. Bailey, “New Charges Allege Religious Leader.”

18. Gothard, “How to Relate to Four Authorities,” 55:51.

19. Smith, “The Cult Next Door,” paragraph 31.

Chapter 12

1. Abigail van Buren (Pauline Phillips), “Sinners and Saints!” Dear Abby, Park City Daily News, March 29, 1964, https://news.google.com/newspapers?nid=1697&dat=19640329&id=X-UeAAAAIBAJ&sjid=CUYEAAAAIBAJ&pg=7180,2561935&hl=en.

2. Austin Duncan, “Are You Stricter than Jesus?” Crossroads ministry sermon (Sun Valley, CA: Grace Community Church, June 5, 2022), https://www.gracechurch.org/sermons/19876.

Chapter 13

1. Bill Gothard, “Why So Many Teens Join a Cult,” BillGothard.com, accessed August 28, 2022, https://billgothard.com/teachings/.

2. Gothard, “Why So Many Teens.”